UPDATE: Psychologist read him the riot act. I hate it that I love my son, but can't handle dealing with him. My thoughts are he has had it too good and thinks that if we will just throw more money at the problem it will be fixed. They are there now - all my son had to say is that now we will hear how really bad he has it. Today, my husband insisted that they both go to the Phsy. I think he just does not like what the man has to say. He has been with an adult counselor now for the last year or so, but rarely goes to scheduled appointments saying the counselor is unqualified to help him. We had him in counseling for sevearl years during high school and it seemed to help. Thank you everyone for your suggestions and support. What if he refuses to leave? Do we have anyway to make him leave our house? We told him today if he does not go to basic training next week, he is out - we don't care where he goes as it is not fair to us or his simblings who manage to perform well in school and treat others with respect. He does nothing around the house and must be the center of attention or he makes everyones life hell. He has no job, no friends, sleeps 12-15 hours a day and only wakes to eat and play video game from midnight to whenever.
Now he is scheduled to start basic training next week and told us yesterday he is quitting as he has too many issues to deal with mentally. We pushed, prodded and threatened just to get the college hours in so he would get accepted in to the Army. He can't hold a job, barely graduated from high school, and managed to finish 15 hours of college in 3 years. For as long as I can remember if he didn't do something perfect the first time he quits. My son has never been interested in doing anything to achieve anything.
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